Friday Night Fights: Wildcat - Round 2: Getting Metal!
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Don't judge my madness by your sanity.
Since this bout of Friday Night Fights is called "Thunder", what better way to conclude it than with some thunder and lightning?
Tonight's forecast calls for some Flash flooding, courtesy of Adventure Comics#466, written by Cary Bates, pencilled by FNF favorite Mike Nasser and inked by Vince Colletta. Synopsis: After years as one of the Flash's deadliest Rogues, Mark Mardon aka The Weather Wizard suddenly and inexplicably decides to be a hero and use his Weather Wand's powers for good, performing feats like using a tornado to stop a plague of locusts. The Flash deduces that a recent increase in sunspot activity has affected the wand, transforming Mardon's personality. However, there's a huge problem.
You may have read the recent revelations of how Chris Sims harassed and cyberbullied Valerie D'Orazio online during the period of 2007-2010. Notice I'm not saying "allegedly" because both D'Orazio and Sims agree it happened. He's apologized for it, and there's been some discussions, particularly on Twitter, about the sincerity of his apology and whether it can truly be accepted in light of the consequences, like PTSD, that D'Orazio continues to live with to this day. But I'm not going to go into that here.
Instead, I'm going to issue an apology of my own. To Valerie D'Orazio. And to everybody who's ever felt the sting of online harassment.
It's not for the online harassment D'Orazio received. I wasn't part of that, nor was I really aware of it. Despite reading both of their blogs, somehow I wasn't really aware of the extent of the ongoing feud between Chris and Val, other than seeing his scathing 2010 review of her Girl Comics 4-page Punisher story. I was very busy with my real life at the time, working a ton of overtime at a stressful job while also dealing with an engagement, then a wedding, and then my first year of marriage.
Also, I wrote this post before I had joined any social networks. It would still be 1 1/2 years before I'd join Facebook, 2 1/2 years before I'd join Twitter. Meaning it would be a while before I'd learn the true scope of the abuse routinely directed at women online. Before learning that scope routinely included even rape and death threats. (Which, to be fair, I'm sensing weren't part of Sims' repertoire here, but I can't say for certain.) Part of this was the privilege of not receiving these threats that came with being a male. The rest was plain old ignorance.
And it was this ignorance that led me to say something I deeply regret.
There was a period of time where D'Orazio had written things on her "Occasional Superheroine" blog that had drawn the ire of other comic bloggers. The one that brought things to a head, around January 2009, was where Val told one commenter that you couldn't call yourself a "feminist" if you bought or supported DC Comics. That spurred bloggers like Sally Pascale and Kalinara to call her out on her words.
It also spurred me to vent my spleen about it here. And therein lies the problem.
I tried to be fair and reasonable in my opinions on D'Orazio despite my irritation with her. And for the most part, I think I succeeded. Naturally, as I had written this years before the advent of the Nu52, there were things about DC where she was proven right about and I was proven wrong. No harm there. And there were other things in my post, like my calling out of her "it's OK if it's Marvel" attitude (to paraphrase Dorian Wright) I stand by to this day.
But then there's one paragraph I wrote that makes me absolutely cringe.
Here's the lead-in to it: